Choosing your own Role Model:



Choosing a Role Model may sound easy, but it is not as it sounds, we have to be really patient to find a good Role Model as the choice we make is something which will inspire and motivate our lives with determination and will.

They help us become the person we want to be and inspire us to make a difference. Choosing wisely means that you are influenced correctly and will help you be the best person you can be. To be like someone. you have to work hard. 


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    Remember that only deities are perfect. God may be perfect, but people aren't. Don't expect any role model to be perfect; they may make mistakes. Of course, if you want a perfect role model, you might want to go with Jesus Christ or Buddha or another religion's god.

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    Look for someone who is living life the way you would like to. If you want to be a famous author, your role model could be someone who has been successful at writing. If you have always wanted to be a nurse, your role model could be someone at your local hospital who is dedicated to their job and someone who you look up to for their achievements.
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    Look for key characteristics that you want to achieve. Choose a role model who may have done something you find admirable, such as raised a lot of money for charity, saved lots of lives, helped people in need or discovered the cure for a disease. Find someone who has good characteristics that you don't have (yet!). Here are some things to think about:

    • Choose someone who has a sense of purpose. A good role model would be someone who knows who they are. You don't want someone who seems perfect but doesn't have a sense of purpose. You want someone who won't pretend to be someone they are not and will not fake just to suit other people.
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    • Consider someone who thinks it is all right to be unique, even if that means accepting some ridicule. They should make you feel good about being yourself, they shouldn't make you compare yourself to them and wish you were pretty.                                 
    • Consider someone who interacts well with others, and someone who is kind and can communicate well with people. Like a teacher. People are easy to understand and emulate when they communicate well.
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    Demonstrate confidence in yourself. Whatever you choose to do with your life, be proud of the person you’ve become and continue to become. It may have been a long and difficult road, but commemorate the lessons you learned, the strength you've amassed, and t# Be yourself. Don't think of changing yourself to fit in. Make improvements, but stay true to who you are.
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    Make two lists. Think about all the things you would want in a role model. Maybe to be better at sport, or work harder in class. Second think of all the ways you can get there. All the little things could soon help you like yourself more and feel proud of yourself.
    5. The Future is in our Hands, if we are going to get anything from our life, it is within us.